|Keeping the Romance
Alive in a Long Distance Relationship Ė 10 tips to keep you on your sweetheartís
Itís hard enough
keeping the flames of romance burning when you see each other every day,
but when your other half is hundreds, if not thousands, of miles away,
the chips are really down to show your loved one how much you care.
||Making someone you
canít see regularly know how much you feel about them is difficult, but
itís not impossible. It just requires a bit more time and effort
than a normal non-long distance relationship! However, with a bit
of thought, and a few ideas from this article, Iím sure youíll be fanning
those flames long after youíre together in one place (and if the relationship
is really going anywhere, eventually you do have to both be in the same
place!). See which of these tips work best for you:
Tips 5 to 10 for Long Distance
handwritten postcard or greetings card once or twice a week. If you
find out she wont get into trouble for receiving it, occasionally send
one to her workplace (make sure this one is in an envelope marked Personal
are usually free. You can get various types. Also available
are virtual chocolates, virtual bouquets and other goodies. Create
yourself a folder on your computer and make a note of where these are.
Make sure you send your beloved something every other day.
a message on cassette and send it to her through the mail. Recite
romantic poetry (yes you can!) or just tell her how much you love and miss
of romantic poetry, send her a book through Amazon, and ask them to write
a special message on it. Better still, actually go and buy
this yourself from a bookstore, and write a special message on the inside
cover for her. Skim through the book and find a couple of poems you
think are appropriate for her and the feelings you have for her, and dedicate
these to her in the margin next to the poems.